In this past week and a half, we have seen a positive change of attitude in Ethan. He had less tantrums and was much more cooperative in doing schoolwork and other things. He was quicker to obey than before. I was wondering if it could be related to our change of discipline method. We now send him to his room when he gets angry or throws a tantrum, so that he can cool off, then talk to him afterwards. He really doesn't like to go to his room, so maybe the "threat" of being sent to his room motivates him to behave? Also, when he fights with Noah, I now tell him if he keeps it up, he doesn't get to play with his brother for a while. He immediately changes to a gentler tone and more cooperative. This affirms his love for his brother, thankfully.
Tonight I asked my husband if he thinks Ethan is behaving better due to our new discipline method. He said that he's sure it's not what we're doing but God's. I then recognized this truth as well. It is true that we can use all kinds of creative methods to train and discipline our kids, however, it is God who can change our kids' hearts. This is also why it's so important for us to pray for our kids all the time.
Dear God, I thank you for working in Ethan's heart for the past week and a half. I have seen some great changes in him, despite the setbacks the previous weeks. Thank you for allowing me to work with him little by little, to see that he is indeed trainable. Lord, I lift up his heart to you this week, may it be soft and moldable, desiring to be good, to honor you and us. Help me to have a great attitude while teaching and disciplining him as well so we might model Christ to him. In Jesus' name. Amen.
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